Sunday, July 09, 2006

What Do You See?

Look at the picture below and tell me what do you see.












So what do you see?

A black dot. Is that your answer?

It's the usual answer I will get from most people. Wouldn't "a white sheet with a tiny black dot" sound like a better answer?

So what's my point exactly?

Isn't this how people usually see things? People always tend to focus on the bad things. A person can be nice for all his life, but a single mistake he did would remain to be the most-talked about topic in everyone's conversation. We focused too much on the black dot that we failed to see the bigger region of the white sheet.

I usually hear things like "I can't believe a nice person like him did that." But it's all a talk in the back, and no one even care to advise the person about his wrongdoing. Yes, he is a nice person. A nice person is a nice person all right, but in the end he's also just a human being who needs to be reminded and advised all the same. Our actions of dissing that person behind his back brings nothing back in return - he remains in his ignorance over his fault, and those dissing him would be nothing but a bunch of gossipers who are looking for more sins to add to their credit.

So, can we all agree that a nice person - no matter how nice he is - is in fact, human. If he did something wrong, do not be so quick to say he is bad. We all need an advice once in a while in our lives. Let us try to focus on how to expand the area of the white sheet than to work on embedding that black dot forever on that pure background.

15 Comments:

Blogger mynn said...

Demam post BTN ke ayumi. i bet they lectured what you posted during BTN, because Im sure I've heard the same! Anyway, good point. The white area is larger but most people concentrate on the dark dot just like how people tend to focus on faults rather than your good deeds.

At work, whatever excellence you've achieved before could in an instant be wiped clean in the eyes of a consultant if you make a fault. Not fair!

6:02 AM  
Blogger ayumi said...

Mynn - hehe.. no connection at all to BTN.. I first heard this in a tazkirah three years ago.

12:52 PM  
Blogger Jamil said...

I looked at that picture, and for a brief moment, I thought I saw a solar eclipse.

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Are marks deducted for wrong answers?

1:44 PM  
Blogger Mama Pongkey said...

Ohhh and I thought this was about the World Cup. Till I saw the time it was posted. Huhu.

5:55 AM  
Blogger dith said...

Solehah,

When I saw that picture I thought it was an eye test for macular degeneration or something. Only that for macular degeneration there are grid-lines all over. hehe. So focused on the dot and I thought the dot 'grew' in size and 'moved' hehe

So when I read your explanation I thought that I was even worse! I focused on one's bad point and exagerated it and even blow it out of proportion! Bad me huh? tsk tsk

7:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I initially thought it was some kind of optical illusion..hehe.

5:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

can't see anything since my internet connection is damn slow even i subscribed for streamyx .heh :p

11:09 PM  
Blogger mynn said...

hirumi kun
you're in trouble my friend if your broadband couldnt even display a black and white picture, hehehe. instead try this:


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what do you see?

dith
ditto! i thought it was an optical illusion to test blind spots and stuff. hehehe, tak sangka it's something else.

11:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

mynn - i can see only one dot.is it?

8:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hirumi kun
ha ah, that's basically the question. hehehe. could you see a dot.

11:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I thought you were doing some titik buta experiment..

can we say it is similar to a malay proverb "jatuh nila setitik rosak susu sebelanga" ?..

9:29 PM  
Blogger pycnogenol said...

Ha ah Cassablancha,

Dosa ku hanya setitik,
Kau 'menggunungkan' nya, KENAPA????

;)

DITH - the dot 'grew' in size and 'moved'.....that was what you saw, eh?

Now I know,....we have to be very, VERY careful with you. ;)

8:51 AM  
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6:46 AM  
Blogger Ikelah said...

just the black dot and the blue border. the white in the box is being absorbed by the white background of the blog. not able to notice it.

like dith said, it was something like an eye test but more on the blind spot examnination.

late comment... not around for sometime.

7:31 AM  
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